Showing posts with label Baby; Pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby; Pregnancy. Show all posts

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Madison's Birth Story

On Wednesday, May 13th, I had my scheduled 39 week OB appointment and was pretty much convinced how it would go. I just knew that the doctor would tell me that I hadn't progressed at all labor-wise and that they would see me for my 40 week appointment. Instead, the doctor informed me that I was measuring small for 39 weeks and recommended an ultrasound be done to figure out why. I was a bit concerned and was anxious to have some answers. Surprisingly, through the ultrasound, the tech estimated that Madison was already approximately 7 pounds 6 ounces; thus she was not nearly as small as the doctors had originally thought (they had estimated for several weeks that she was a little over 6 pounds). The tech measured the amount of amniotic fluid surrounding Madison, completed the ultrasound, and then escorted me back into one of the examine rooms to wait for the doctor.

The doctor came in, sat down and said: "so you are 38 weeks and 6 days and your amniotic fluid levels are very low...so... (long pause)...let's have a baby!!" I just looked at her, absolutely shocked. Did I miss something!? I proceeded to ask her to clarify whether she meant now and she said yes, now, and to call the hubby. She then asked how soon we could get our hospital bags and get to the hospital.  Still in complete shock and stumbling over my words, I mumbled that we could be there in the next two hours and she told me she would call labor and delivery and alert them we were on our way. I walked out of my doctor's office in pure shock and excitement and immediately called Evan who was still at work (it was around 4 pm). Evan was understandably a bit flustered and assured me he would leave work right away. We were going to get to meet our little one early! I was thrilled!

I drove home (extremely distracted and I probably shouldn't have been driving), called my parents and then hurriedly packed the last minute items in our hospital bags. Of course it took a bit lot longer than I thought it would. Evan arrived home, we packed up the car, got Bella, and drove to Ruth's to drop off Bella.

We arrived at the hospital around 6:30 pm, checked in and I was immediately hooked up to the baby monitors and was given an IV. Additionally, I was given a ripening agent to encourage my cervix to open up (as I hadn't made any progress up to this point). Sleep that night was nearly impossible (due to my excitement and the extremely uncomfortable hospital beds) and I think I maybe got one to two hours total.

Around 8 am the next morning (5/14), our nurse came in and allowed me to take a shower, eat breakfast, and then started pitocin around 9:45 am.

Thus began the waiting game. For the first several hours after starting the pitocin, I started having fairly light contractions. By midday, the contractions had picked up and they were starting to be somewhat painful but bearable. I honestly think one of the hardest parts of being induced was not being able to eat for over 24 hours. My last meal was breakfast around 8 am and I was not allowed to eat anything other than clear liquids until after Madison was born (a little after 10 am the following morning).

By early evening (a little before 6 pm) the OB on call came to check my progress and we were hopeful that I had made significant progress. My contractions at this point were becoming extremely uncomfortable and I was starting to discuss with Evan when we thought I should ask for the epidural (which I knew I would want). Unfortunately, the OB announced that I was only 1.5 cm dilated, which was only .5 cm more than I was that morning before they started the pitocin. I was extremely disappointed and frustrated. I had been in labor all day and had only progressed half a centimeter. I tried to keep it together, but I started crying. I was hungry, my contractions were basically right on top of one another and I wasn't progressing. To top it all off, I knew that the chances of having a c-section increase significantly when you are induced, so at this point, I was already starting to mentally prepare myself for that result. My parents arrived a few minutes later and were startled to see me so upset. Evan explained to them that we had just gotten very disappointing news.

Soon thereafter, I requested the epidural. I did not care that I was only 1.5 cm dilated. I had been laboring all day and my contractions were right on top of one another and were quite strong and painful. Turned out to be the best decision I made all day. Around 10 pm that evening, my epidural was administered and within minutes, the relief I felt was amazing. The epidural even made the bed much more comfortable for me and I was able to get in a good amount of sleep that night.

Early the next morning (5/15) around 6 am, a nurse came to check my progress and announced that I was 9 centimeters dilated. I looked at her, pleasantly surprised and shocked, and asked her to repeat that. She again repeated that I was 9 centimeters dilated. Evan and I were so relieved and excited to hear that I had made so much progress that night. And the best part, is that I didn't feel any of it...I had just slept right through it. The nurse informed us that she would check back in a couple of hours, but that we would likely be meeting our little girl that morning!! We were so excited at that point and I could not stop smiling!!

The next several hours flew by and before I knew it, the nurse came in to check me again and announced that I was 10 centimeters dilated and she could see the baby's head!! I couldn't believe it. It was a very surreal moment; we were about to meet our little girl. The nurse scrambled to get the OB, Dr. Fishburne (whom we really liked a lot) and carts were wheeled in for the last minute prep before I was given permission to start pushing. Before the doctor stepped in, the nurse instructed me that I could give one strong push during a contraction, so I did. As I was pushing, the nurse looked a little surprised and told me to stop pushing as according to Evan her head was already making an appearance! The doctor quickly came in the room and within three pushes and six minutes (not kidding I am not exaggerating), Madison Ashley was born at 10:46 am. I could not believe how quickly the pushing went, but I am not complaining. To put icing on the cake, I apparently had extremely minimal tearing that only required several stitches. It was such a great way to end a process that had been quite lengthy and frustrating at times.

Madison was quickly put on my chest and it was such a surreal moment to be holding our little girl. She barely cried and just looked calmly around the room with her beautiful blue eyes. Madison was cleaned up and Evan got to hold her. They looked so cute together, I wanted to cry. Definitely one of the happiest moments of my life.

I'll let the pictures do the rest of the talking.

Morning of May 14th, after beginning the pitocin.












 Sleeping after the epidural was administered. 


 Go time on 5/15.













Can't believe she is over a week old already!!

Friday, March 20, 2015

My Virginia (Family) Baby Shower

This past Saturday we had our family shower in Sharps, Virgina at Evan's grandparent's house. We had quite a large group and the food was delicious! Evan and I are so grateful to have had such a beautiful shower thrown for little Madison!





 Evan and I before the shower.







 A dress that my mother-in-law made...I can't wait for Madison to be able to wear it!

 Personalized M&M's with Madison's name on them.


 Nonalcoholic punch for the pregnant lady.


 Yogurt parfaits.


 Opening gifts.






 Mom gave me the dress that I wore home from the hospital.


 Sophie the Giraffe.


Our Pack 'N Play!


We also got our Bob stroller (pictured above) which is definitely the one thing one our registry that I was most excited about! Bella (of course) helped with opening all of the gifts.

It was so great to see everyone and really touched by all of the love that we felt for baby Madison!

Thursday, March 12, 2015

My Work Baby Shower

 Today, my co-workers from U.S. Trust pulled out all of the stops and pulled off a simply amazing baby shower in honor of our little Madison. I was so in awe of all that they did that I was literally shaking when we walked in the conference room today. I will let the pictures do most of the talking...

One of my co-workers made the beautiful letter M for Madison and also handmade all of the hanging decorations. Dean and DeLuca catered our lunch which was absolutely delicious. We had petite ham biscuits, egg salad sandwiches, chicken salad sandwiches, artichoke dip, orzo pasta (my favorite) and fresh fruit.

 An adorable diaper cake made by another co-worker.

 The spread...



 Hubby and I feeling so loved.

 Another co-worker spray painted mason jars and added fresh flowers to coordinate with our pink and grey nursery theme.

 Pink lemonade (of course) and sweet tea to drink...

 Oh my goodness...the cake was from my favorite bakery, Cloud 9 Confections at 7th Street Market. As always, they did not disappoint! The cake was beautiful!



 One of the many games that we played. Another co-worker organized four to five games I think? Games included a baby word scramble, a word find, and the price is right baby.  The game pictured above was guess my due date.  I hope one of the earlier guesses is right, ha! I kind of doubt that will happen, but one can be optimistic!

 Oh my gosh...sooo many gifts. I swear my co-workers bought practically one third of my registry! It was so incredibly sweet!

Thank you to all of my co-workers for an amazing day! Evan and I felt so truly loved and blessed!

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Pregnancy Week 18




How Far Along: 18 weeks
 
Size of Baby:
Baby is the size of a sweet potato.


Gender:
A sweet baby girl! Madison Ashley!


Maternity Clothes: Same as last week. Lots of leggings, nonmaternity dresses from Forever 21. I got several great pieces from H&M Maternity. I highly recommend their maternity jeggings! I still can't wear straight maternity items (other than pants) because they are just too big still. 

Workouts: Two. Ugh. I still struggle to find the time/motivation. Evan and I did join a gym that has several indoor swimming pools and an outdoor pool for the summer in addition to the fitness center and exercise classes. I am hoping to make it to the gym a good bit since I can walk there.

Weight Gain:
Up another pound from the past two weeks.

Sleep: Pretty good. I have been going to bed a little later than previously...usually by 10:30 pm.

Cravings/Aversions: Pizza, vegetarian subs, sweet potato fries, salads...basically anything other than sweets.

Movement: Yes! This past Saturday night I felt her first kick and Evan was able to feel her kick too! Since then I have felt her move every day. It is a pretty awesome feeling!!

Nursery:
We have made a good bit of progress.  Dresser, curtains, closet shelving, lighting, crib, and rug are in place. I still have a lot of the small details to complete, but all of the major pieces are in place!

Symptoms:
Almost normal energy level. Growing belly...

What I Miss: Caesar salads, soft cheeses and red wine. Not much else.  
Mood: So so happy and content knowing we are having a little girl!

Best Moment This Week:
Our 18 week anatomy scan. I was a bit nervous even though we were assured at our 15 week 3D scan that everything looked great. I was still worried and it was great to hear again that everything looked great and that it appears we are having a completely healthy little girl.
 
Looking Forward To:
Is it too soon to say that I am looking forward to Madison finally being here? Because I already can't wait! 

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Pregnancy Weeks 16 and 17

I am a little behind on my weekly bumpdates (again), so I have combined weeks 16 and 17 to catch up.


How Far Along: 17 weeks
 
Size of Baby:
Baby is the size of an onion.


Gender:
A sweet baby girl! Madison Ashley!


Maternity Clothes: Lots of leggings, nonmaternity dresses from Forever 21. I got several great pieces from H&M Maternity. I highly recommend their maternity jeggings! I still can't wear straight maternity items (other than pants) because they are just too big still. 

Workouts: Three. Ugh. I still struggle to find the time. I need some motivation!

Weight Gain:
Ugh...8 pounds from original weight.

Sleep: Pretty good. I have been going to bed a little later than previously...usually by 10:30 pm.

Cravings/Aversions: I LOVE Jimmy John’s vegetarian subs still. Like I can eat it every meal...no joke.

Movement: None yet, I can't wait!

Nursery:
Progress has begun! We found a dresser at The Depot at Gibson Mill in Concord, NC and found curtains, shelving options, and a chandalier at Ikea. Evan has installed the shelving in the closet and it looks amazing. I am so thankful to have such a handy husband! We still need to purchase the crib, but I have it picked out.

Symptoms:
Almost normal energy level. I feel almost completely normal..I LOVE it!

What I Miss: Caesar salads, soft cheeses and red wine. Not much else.  
Mood: So so happy and content knowing we are having a little girl!

Best Moment This Week:
Starting to see the nursery come together. We still have a lot of work to do, but we have put a good dent in it! Also, picking our top day care facility! It is pretty swanky and I am really excited! Our daycare has baby yoga and an in house chef that makes organic baby food!

Looking Forward To:
Feeling the little one move and especially for Evan to be able to feel her kick.

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Our Gender Reveal

On Thanksgiving day we gathered with family and found out the gender of our first child. Carrie, my soon to be sister-in-law did a great job capturing all of the special moments on film and my father in law took a video of the whole reveal. We went for our gender reveal scan at Lake Norman 3D Imaging on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. Roxanne, the ultrasound tech, was amazing and Evan and I plan to back again towards the end of our pregnancy! I was terrified that the baby would not cooperate and that we would not be able to find out in time for Thanksgiving, but was relieved when Roxanne assured me that she had no trouble determining our baby's gender. Without further ado here are a ton of pictures of our gender reveal...

 The cake was from Cloud 9 Confections in Uptown Charlotte. They did an amazing job!


 A shot before the big reveal...

 I kept repeating before cutting the cake: "I am so scared!" I was shaking and I was so nervous! We really would be happy with either gender, however I did really had my hopes set on one particular one if I am being honest...


 









 
WE ARE HAVING A GIRL!!!




 Our sweet little Madison Ashley! We could not be more thrilled! I was really really hoping for a girl and we got our wish! I have already bought tons of bows and frilly dresses! I cannot wait!
 
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